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Swinging in Australia: Relaxed, Sunny and Open to Everyone
Swinging in Australia is as laid-back as you'd expect: backyard catch-ups that turn flirty, pool parties that run late, and couples who'd rather have a laugh than make a fuss. ComeSwinging welcomes Aussie couples and singles whether it's your first time or your hundredth.
Australians have a gift for making things easy, and the swinging scene here shows it. Evenings rarely start with anything more formal than a few drinks on the deck. Couples get to know each other properly before anything happens, and when it does, it's usually because everyone was enjoying themselves so much it seemed silly not to.
From the inner suburbs of Sydney and Melbourne to a quiet town four hours from the nearest capital, the way in is the same: a profile that sounds like you, a chat with people you like the look of, and a drink to see if the spark survives a face-to-face.
A Typical Aussie Swingers Evening
Every couple has their own version, but plenty of evenings run something like this.
- 5pm, the arvo
A text: "Still on for later?" A quick trip to the bottle shop, and an outfit change or three.
- 7pm, the deck
Drinks in the backyard, the barbie going, everyone talking rubbish and laughing at it.
- 9pm, the pool
Someone dares someone. Swimmers come off. The flirting stops being subtle.
- 10.30pm, inside
Whatever the four of you shook hands on earlier. Some nights never leave the pool.
- Morning
Bacon and eggs, a few sheepish grins, and plans for next month.
Having a Go for the First Time
Plenty of Aussie couples have joked about it for years before anyone says "shall we actually?" When you get there, sit down with a drink and sort out three things: what sounds fun, what's a hard no, and a word that means you're out of there, no arguments. Tick "new" on your joint profile. Seasoned couples here are usually generous with first-timers and won't rush you. The first catch-up is a drink at a pub, and that's all it needs to be.
Lots of couples ease in with a soft swap, where hands and lips wander but sex stays between the two of you, and only go further once they've found a couple they trust. When that day comes, read up on couple swapping, Aussie style.
Big Country, Small Towns
Australia is huge, and that shapes how swinging works here. In the capital cities there are couples in every suburb, and you can be choosy about distance. Out in the regions it's different: the nearest couple on the same wavelength might be a couple of hours away, so members widen their search, meet halfway, and often make a weekend of it. Perth couples know all about distance, and plenty plan their meets around a long weekend.
Shift work changes things too. If you're on a fly-in, fly-out roster or rotating shifts, say so on your profile; other couples will happily plan around your weeks home. And in a country town where everyone knows your ute, discretion matters: use a nickname, keep clearer photos in your private gallery, and leave your workplace off your profile.
How a Good Chat Starts
Friendly, a bit cheeky, and straight to the point. Very Australian.
Saturday, 4:36pm
G'day you two. Love the profile. Any couple who lists "pool, then whatever happens" is our kind of couple.
Ha, it's been known to happen. Drinks next weekend? We'll fire up the barbie.
Deal. We'll bring the prawns. You bring the bad ideas.
Example messages
Swinging in Australia: Questions
Is swinging a summer thing in Australia?
Summer is certainly the busiest season. Long evenings, warm water and the Christmas holidays make pool parties and weekends away easy to arrange. But plenty of couples keep it going all year, and winter catch-ups around a fire pit have their own appeal.
How do swingers in the regions meet anyone?
By widening the search and being patient. Couples outside the capitals often chat with others two or three hours away, meet halfway for a counter lunch, and plan the evening itself around a long weekend. Regional couples tend to become close friends, because nobody's driving four hours for someone they don't like.
Do FIFO couples swing?
Plenty do, and they're often very good at planning. If one of you works a roster, put your swing weeks on your profile and other couples will fit in around them. A week home after a fortnight away can make for a very enthusiastic Saturday.
Are single blokes welcome?
Yes, with the right attitude. Couples welcome single men who are patient, polite and happy for the couple to call the shots. Single women are always popular. Whoever you are, read the profile properly and message both partners.
Fire Up the Barbie. And the Profile.
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