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Swingers in Ireland: How the Irish Scene Works, and How to Join It
Irish swingers are some of the friendliest company you'll find anywhere: chatty, warm, and very good at keeping a secret. ComeSwinging is for swingers across Ireland, from Dublin to Donegal and Cork to Connemara, new to it or at it for years.
Ireland is a small island, and that shapes everything about swinging in Ireland. Your neighbour's sister probably knows your cousin, so Irish swingers take discretion seriously. They chat for longer before meeting, choose first-date spots a town or two away, and keep what happens strictly between the people who were there. It makes for a scene built on trust, and on the kind of conversation that's half the fun.
And it's a scene with plenty going on. Couples in every county, single swingers who love meeting couples, and a steady stream of first-timers who've finally decided to stop just talking about it.
Swingers in Dublin and the Cities
Dublin has the most going on, as you'd expect: couples spread from the city centre out to the commuter towns, and enough choice that you can be fussy about distance. Swingers in Dublin often meet for a first drink in a hotel bar, where nobody looks twice at two couples chatting, and save the main event for someone's house a week or two later.
Cork, Galway and Limerick each have their own circles, smaller and often tighter-knit. In the cities you'll find house parties too, hosted by couples who invite people they've chatted with online and met for a drink. Getting on the guest list is mostly about being friendly, patient and good company.
Swinging Outside the Cities
Rural Ireland is a different story, and a lovely one. The nearest couple on the same page might be an hour away, so members widen their search, meet halfway, and often make a night of it in a hotel so nobody's driving home late on narrow roads. The upside of distance is discretion: a couple from the next county is far less likely to turn up at your local on a Sunday.
A few habits keep things private wherever you live. Use a first name or a nickname. Keep your clearer photos in a private gallery. Leave your townland, your workplace and your GAA team off your profile. And agree a story in case you ever do bump into someone you know.
How a Good Irish Chat Starts
Friendly, quick-witted and easy to answer. This is the kind of opener that gets a reply.
Friday, 9:12pm
Howya. Your profile had us both in stitches. Any couple who lists "a few pints, then trouble" is our sort.
Ha. The trouble's usually better than the pints. Galway next Saturday?
Grand. We'll get the first round in. You bring the trouble.
Example messages
Starting Out in Ireland
Irish couples often talk about it for a year before they do anything, usually after a few drinks, usually laughing. When the laughing turns serious, sit down and agree what you'd both enjoy, what's a firm no, and the phrase that means "come on, we're going". Make a joint profile and say you're new to it; plenty of seasoned Irish couples take first-timers under their wing. Keep the first meet to one drink. A soft swap, where you kiss and touch but keep sex for each other, is how a lot of Irish couples begin. When you want to go further, read about partner swapping for Irish couples.
Swingers in Ireland: Questions
Are there many swingers in Ireland?
More than you'd think, in every county. Irish swingers are mostly ordinary couples and singles who've decided to explore, and they keep it quiet because the country is small. Dublin is busiest, but you'll find couples right across the island.
Where do Irish swingers have a first drink?
Usually a hotel bar or a quiet lounge a town or two from home, somewhere two couples chatting won't draw a second glance. Pubs where the barman knows your mother are avoided for obvious reasons.
Are there swinger parties in Ireland?
Yes, mostly private house parties in and around the cities. They're invitation only: hosts invite people they've chatted with and met. Be friendly and patient online, and invitations follow.
What about Northern Ireland?
Couples north of the border use ComeSwinging UK, and plenty of them happily meet couples from the Republic too. Distance matters more than the border, so set your search to suit.
The Craic Starts With Hello
Make a discreet profile and see which Irish couples are near you.